Articles by Ruby Payne
She’s a writer and sex and relationship expert by day, a Dominatrix by night, as well as being clued up on all things to do with body language. In her free time (yes, she still has that), Ruby consults with the wonderful folk here at UberKinky, helping them with everything from new sex toy ideas right through to marketing the finished product.
For well over a decade now, Ruby has written about sex, relationships, fetishes and kinks across the Internet. Whether that’s here on the UberKinky site or in publications such as The Sun, The Mirror, Yahoo, Huffington Post, Entertainment Daily, The Tab, and Cosmopolitan - to name a few.
Taking sex tips and tricks and life lessons from her sessions with clients - whose indulgences include anything from impact play (that’s spanking) to humiliation play - Ruby has a wealth of knowledge to tap into when it comes to getting down and dirty.
Whether that’s giving her two cents on the relationships of Love Island contestants (body language says a lot, ladies!), telling you what you absolutely should NOT be doing to your genitals, or giving some hot sex positions to spice things up, Ruby certainly knows her stuff.
There’s a lot to learn when it comes to sex - especially fetishes and kinks - but Ruby would love to have you come along for the ride.
Looking to up your orgasm game? Our ultimate guide to having the best orgasm of your life will take from the start to the oh-so satisfaction finish.
14 December 2021
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Fancy hopping on for a ride? Reverse cowgirl has all the power benefits of normal cowgirl, but with so many added bonuses! Let us teach you how...
5 November 2021
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There's more than one way to get your rocks off! We take you through the best masturbation positions if you have a penis. Get cumfy!
2 November 2021
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Fan fiction is often dirty - as the deepest, darkest fantasies of the fans are immortalised on paper or screen, and unwritten stories come to life - but who out there gets the most creative online?
29 September 2021
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Next time you're feeling a bit bored, you'll know exactly what to do with this guide. Read on & get turned on, finding out how to masturbate in the shower!
15 September 2021
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Think self-love is just for the front? Think again. Venture round back for some anal fun, and get behind our 10 anal masturbation tips. Come this way!
7 September 2021
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Feel sexy AF all the time with these six confidence boosting sex positions that will cause your self-esteem to skyrocket. You're welcome.
27 August 2021
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Hello, is there a Mr Ben Dover here?
When it comes to anal play, there’s a few activities that have been hogging the spotlight for some time now. Backdoor fingering, rimming… But how about pegging?
27 August 2021
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Getting tired of the usual go-to sex positions? Feeling a bit same-y in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re just horny for some self-lovin’? Whether you’re a sex toy novice or it’s just been a while since you’ve had a play with a turn-you-on toy, we’ve got you sorted out with our pick of the best sex toys for beginners, from a simple buzzer to a brave little dildo.
16 August 2021
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We're all after more moaning time (in the bedroom)! Want to know how to make sex last longer? Who doesn't! We've got the tricks; come this way!
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