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Articles by Ruby Payne

Articles by Ruby Payne

She’s a writer and sex and relationship expert by day, a Dominatrix by night, as well as being clued up on all things to do with body language. In her free time (yes, she still has that), Ruby consults with the wonderful folk here at UberKinky, helping them with everything from new sex toy ideas right through to marketing the finished product.

For well over a decade now, Ruby has written about sex, relationships, fetishes and kinks across the Internet. Whether that’s here on the UberKinky site or in publications such as The Sun, The Mirror, Yahoo, Huffington Post, Entertainment Daily, The Tab, and Cosmopolitan - to name a few.

Taking sex tips and tricks and life lessons from her sessions with clients - whose indulgences include anything from impact play (that’s spanking) to humiliation play - Ruby has a wealth of knowledge to tap into when it comes to getting down and dirty.

Whether that’s giving her two cents on the relationships of Love Island contestants (body language says a lot, ladies!), telling you what you absolutely should NOT be doing to your genitals, or giving some hot sex positions to spice things up, Ruby certainly knows her stuff.

There’s a lot to learn when it comes to sex - especially fetishes and kinks - but Ruby would love to have you come along for the ride.

How to keep the spark alive in an LTR

Has your sex life gone from daring to dull, and you want to find new ways to relight the fire with your partner? Here's how to keep the spark alive in an LTR (long term relationship).
12 January 2022
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How to masturbate better

Take your “me time” to the next level with this ‘all you need to know’ and no stone unturned guide on how to masturbate better. Yes, better.
7 January 2022
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How to use a double-ended dildo

Fancy doubling up for your next playtime? Experience twice the orgasm with our guide on how to use a double-ended dildo. 
7 January 2022
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How to ride a dildo: Techniques and positions

Get the most out of your next playtime, hit all the right spots and discover new techniques and positions with our guide on how to ride a dildo.
30 December 2021
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A guide to dildo sizes

Find your perfect match with our guide to dildo sizes, offering the ideal playmate to suit any preference.
29 December 2021
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The best threesome sex positions

If you’re bored of one-on-one and want to experience double the pleasure, UberKinky’s guide to the best threesome sex positions are sure to make you climax.
16 December 2021
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How to have better orgasms

Looking to up your orgasm game? Our ultimate guide to having the best orgasm of your life will take from the start to the oh-so satisfaction finish.
14 December 2021
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How to use a suction cup dildo

Want all the fun of a dildo but with your hands free to play elsewhere? Then you need to indulge in a suction cup dildo! Let us explain...
10 November 2021
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How to ride reverse cowgirl

Fancy hopping on for a ride? Reverse cowgirl has all the power benefits of normal cowgirl, but with so many added bonuses! Let us teach you how...
5 November 2021
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The best male masturbation positions

There's more than one way to get your rocks off! We take you through the best masturbation positions if you have a penis. Get cumfy!
2 November 2021
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