Are you the sub? Or maybe you’re the Dom? Either way, you’re in for a mouth-watering treat. Dominant sex positions can be fun, they can be exciting, but most of all, they can be extremely pleasurable. Trusting your partner enough to let them take complete control is an amazingly vulnerable and thrilling experience, but when the word ‘dominated’ springs to mind, it can seem quite scary at first. Being dominated in bed should feel intensely romantic, intimate and really get your juices flowing, we always suggest having a safe word in any sort of dominant sex situations - especially if you or your partner is tied down.
Now onto the fun bit. Choosing the right sex positions to fulfil your dominatrix fantasy is actually quite hard. Mainly because you’re going to want to try them all. Dominant sex positions are great for all partner combos, and will satisfy any and all holes. But where to start? Experiment with your wilder side and try out some of these dominant sex positions that you definitely won’t want to miss out on.
Doggy style
Woof! Everyone loves a bit of doggy, and what better way to dominate your partner - or let them dominate you - than from behind? Whether you’re standing up, or laying down, this position will hit all the right spots. The classic doggy style is enough to get you going, but why not up the dominance levels with some spicy sex toys. Pin your partner’s arms behind their back manually or with a pair of handcuffs - both are a sure fire way to turn up the heat. Keep a bullet vibrator to hand and stimulate your partner’s clit from behind for ultimate domination. For all of you anal lovers out there, doggy style is perfect for a bit of strap-on playtime. Or, if you’re into that double penetration life, then adding an extra dildo can really up the ante? You’d be barking mad to not give it a go.
Downward dog
A close relative of our beloved doggy style, the downward dog had to grace this list with its presence. If anything, the downward dog is the lazy version of a good old doggy - by this we mean you basically just have to lie on your front. Go face down, ass up and make sure that back is curved and those hips are tilted back. To make this even easier, place a bolster pillow under your hips to lift them up. You’re gonna be making noises you’ve never heard before with this deep penetration action.
Now you’re asking - how can I make this dominant? Good question. Just like doggy style, there are lots of toys and restraints you can bring to the table. The bonus of this behind position - other than your partner getting to look at your cute butt - is that you can include a mini flogger for some ass-spanking action. Actually, any sort of spanking equipment is useful to test your pain threshold. Hair pulling is another fabulous addition to this sex position. Nothing screams ‘dominant’ like having a fist full of your partner’s hair.
Legs on the shoulders
Get your legs hooked over those shoulders and get going in this next dominant sex position. Luckily, you don’t have to be super flexible for this one - but a bit of acrobatics never hurt anyone. Let your partner reach into your deepest depths - with your legs as high as this, access to your innards is incredibly easy - so yes, we really mean deepest depths. To make this position even more dominant, why not include some thigh cuff restraints, or get your partner to restrict your hand movement with a gentle - or rough - arm pin down. Try this position out in your next dominant sex session and we promise it’ll become a regular.
Missionary
Ignore anyone who claims missionary is vanilla. We’re here to tell you that you don’t have to bend into a pretzel shape to have hot, sticky dominant sex. Picture this: your partner’s pinning you down - maybe they’re whispering something dirty into your ear - and not to mention the intense eye contact. Wowee. Definitely dominant. If you’re thinking of sprucing things up the old fashioned way, secure some bed restraints to your headboard and frame - we promise that you’ll have a banging time.
Spread eagle
Embrace your inner eagle and spread those legs vagina-owners, because it’s time to open wide. This sexy position is very similiar to missionary - it’s just a bit more of a stretch. We know keeping your legs fixed in place can be tricky - especially if you’re writhing around with pleasure - so why not try a spreader bar. Being forced into position - well, nothing gets more dominant than that. Give your partner full control of your hole.
Cowgirl
Yeehaw! This is one for the vagina-owners of the world - embrace your inner cowgirl with this next position. With your knees or feet placed firmly on the bed, ride your partner to your heart's content. What could be more dominant than being on top and in complete control?
Feel like that’s not dominant enough? Crack open the bondage tape and tie your partner's hands above their head for complete and utter dominance. Being a variation of the regular old cowgirl, instead of being on your knees or feet, place your feet just above your partner’s shoulders. Not only will you hit that sweet, sweet g-spot, it’s also a super hot position.
Wall Sex
Who doesn’t love being pushed up against a wall and devoured? Wall sex might not be a convential sex position, but goddamn is it dominant. Lift your partner up and press them against that wall - nothing’s sexier than being held up in the air by some strong arms, and we refuse to hear any different. Not everyone can hold their partner up for long sex sessions, that’s why door sex swings are so amazing. Strap in and prepare for unrestricted pleasure - it’s not quite the mile high club, but it's close enough.
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