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Beginner's Guide To Penis Extenders

Penis Extenders

“It’s not the size; it’s what you do with it that counts!” Fed up of hearing tired old sayings like this? Sick of feeling like you’re the not-so-proud owner of a dinghy rather than the Titanic? Maybe you’re finding it hard getting, well, hard, but want to satisfy your playmate and put in the perfect performance? Whatever the reason, you’re here because you think a penis extender might float your boat!

Don’t worry, your battleship can rise to the challenge, and we’re here to help. Check out our beginners guide to penis extenders before getting started with your play to make sure you’re getting everything you bargained for...and more.

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Getting the terminology right

What are penis extenders? getting the terminology right

Before we get started, let's make sure we are all on the same page. We've heard a lot of people using the term' penis extender' when they mean 'penis stretcher.'

What is a penis extender?

A penis extender is a toy that you secure to your manhood to add extra inches. There are different varieties to choose from which we will be talking about later on in this guide. These extenders are worn during sexual play only.

People also refer to penis extenders as a penis sleeve, cock enhancer or penis sheath.

Reasons You Should Try Penis Extenders

Reasons You Should Try Penis Extenders

Unsure about investing in a penis extender? Not easily sucked in when it comes to sex toys? Well, we’re here to tell you that penis extenders are kind of a big deal, and here are five UberKinky reasons why:

Penis Extenders - Size Matters

Good things come in BIG packages

For some people, size does matter. A penis extender will increase your girth as well as your length to ensure your play is always G-spot on.

When it comes to your manhood, it’s not just what you do with it that counts. Bigger really is better. So, why not slip into something more satisfying, get a confidence boost and wave goodbye to that inferiority complex?

Penis Extenders - The Look

You won’t be able to take your eyes off that prize

Want to appear as though you’re hung like a horse? Well, a penis extender will undoubtedly assist with that. One glance of your meat shrouded in one of these remarkable sheaths is all it will take to inspire great arousal for both of you.

Penis Extenders - Prolonged Pleasure

Get hard, stay strong and love for longer

This type of play has been a long time coming! Penis extenders are designed to keep your erection stronger for longer so you can fully satisfy your partner with the performance of a lifetime.

The sensation of wearing a penis sleeve will give you a lift as well as help you maintain it for longer. Some men have difficulties getting in the mood, or struggle to perform after a few drinks; which is where an extender can come in handy.

Penis Extenders - Superior Sensations

Deliver supreme stimulation that

Get to grips with superior sensations. If you thought that wearing a penis sleeve would desensitise your deal, then you are in for a surprise. While you may not feel every stroke in the same way, you won’t be short of enjoyment. Penis extenders create an initial vacuum, which alone provides a sensation similar to deep throating. Additionally, the tantalising texture will offer supremely satisfying stimulation, especially for your playmate. Now is the time to start living large.

Penis Extenders - Orgasm Denial

Penis extenders can be a real cock tease

Why not expand your repertoire to include a little orgasm denial? The power play aspect can be a significant turn on for both parties, as well as ensure that sex lasts longer and is much more intense. You can feel as though you’re on the climactic brink at all times until you are both fully satisfied.


Safety first

You’ll want to get even more out of your penis extender than you put in. Just be sure to read and follow any instructions that come with your sex toy. If you’re still unsure, do further research until you have a clear understanding of precisely what to do.

It is vital that your playmate is fully warmed up and ready to take in a much larger portion than they are used to. It will help if you spent even more time on foreplay to get your partners blood circulating and help get them relaxed.

It’s also vital that the outside of the penis sheath and your partners eagerly awaiting hole is sufficiently lubricated. This will leave you both ready and waiting to enjoy the sizable benefits a penis extender has to offer.



  • Discuss using the extender with your partner - before using it in play.
  • Choose a penis sleeve that you’ll feel comfortable wearing - both physically and psychologically.
  • Use a water-based lubricant inside your extender - no one wants to chafe down there.
  • Trim your pubes beforehand - to avoid any pulling and discomfort.
  • Monitor your playmate’s reactions - and act on them accordingly.


  • Wear it all day long - you might like the feeling of all that extra length and girth, but you’ll end up sweaty and dehydrated in your favourite area.
  • Wear your toy without telling your playmate - we believe in open and transparent experiences, and your partner will need to be fully prepared for the filling they’re about to receive.
  • Be stingy with the foreplay - it’s crucial that the receiver is adequately warmed up.
  • Continue wearing it - if you experience any discomfort or pain.

Safety should always come first, so make sure you and your partner understand the safety requirements and maintain them at all times.


Types of penis extenders

We’ve got everything you need to fulfil your extension needs. Starting with subtlety, we have flesh-coloured options with added length and intricate detailing. At the other end of the kinky scale would be something akin to a 10-inch extender that’ll have your partner biting down on their ball gag.

If you aren’t sure what type of extender to invest in, we have you covered:

Real feel/realistic penis sleeve

A real-feel penis extender is a hollow, tube-like toy that you slide onto your manhood. They require a little TLC to maintain their texture when it comes to cleaning. They can sometimes slide off during play, so it’s worth investing in a toy with suction action.

[UberKinky recommends the Vixen Creations Colossus Penis Extender]

Strap on penis extender

These also have a hollow centre for your penis. However, they are ultimately held in position with an adjustable strap around the waist. Some options include straps that go between the thighs as well as around the waist. These are considered to be the most:

1) Sturdy

2) Simple to clean

3) Easy to maintain

[UberKinky recommends the Fetish Fantasy 6 inch Hollow Strap-On Dildo]

Vibrating extender

Ever wondered why vibrators are so popular? Experience it for yourself while giving your partner an added thrill with a vibrating penis extender.

[UberKinky recommends the Seven Creations 6 inch Black Hollow Vibrating Strap-On]

Fantasy penis extender

If you and your partner are ready to take things to the x-treme, a fantasy extender is the way to go. Not only will this add inches, but some models also come with ‘real feel’ balls for added pleasure.

[UberKinky recommends the Fetish Fantasy Big Daddy 10 Inch Hollow Strap On]

Anal thruster extender

If you are looking to spice up anal play, an anal thruster extender is undoubtedly up for the challenge. Just one of the many reasons to invest in this type of extender is its ability to bend for even an even better fit.

[UberKinky recommends the Mister B WAD Anal Thruster Penis Extender]

When deciding which type of toy will do the trick, it’s worth considering what you are hoping to achieve with your purchase:

1) Are you exploring extenders for you, your partner or a little bit of both?

2) How much bigger are you hoping to go?

3) What budget do you have in mind?

4) Is discretion important?

Still undecided about which product to choose? Use our live chat for some tailored recommendations.

Penis extender instructions

Penis extender instructions

The toy you purchase should come with its own specific instructions. Therefore, these are broad guidelines and should not replace any that come with your specific purchase.

So, are you ready to experience the immense satisfaction, both physical and psychological, that comes with using a penis extender?

How to prepare

1) We recommend trimming your pubes before getting started to ensure comfort throughout your session.

2) Lavish the inside of your cock sheath, as well as your junk, with water-based lube. This will stop any unwanted chafing or rubbing.

3) There’s likely to be a hole to grip the base of your meat and accommodate your balls. So, make sure everything is where it needs to be.

How to put on penis extender

4) Slip the hollow extender over the penis & slide all the way to the base.

5) Attach the loop behind the balls to secure the penis sleeve in place (this also provides additional stimulation during sex).

You’re now ready to go!



Once you’ve both had your fill, there are a few essential things you have to do.

Firstly, you should clean your penis extender after you take it off. Refer to the instructions included with your toy as they will differ depending on the material of your sleeve.

If there are no cleaning instructions, wash it with warm water and mild soap. Alternatively, you could invest in an antibacterial toy cleaner. After washing, leave your extender to air dry or use a towel before storing it.

Don’t forget your partner

Your playmate will have taken quite a considerable size and will need to be taken care of. They should drink plenty of water and take time to rest. They may even benefit from nibbling on some chocolate.

Some may prefer to keep a glass or metal toy in the fridge ahead of time and end the session by inserting it to soothe the area. UberKinky recommends your playmate take a warm bath too.

Penis Extender Reviews

Now you know all you need to know about spicing up your experience with a penis extender, it’s time to find the perfect toy. Below are reviews from some of our happy customers to help you make a decision.

  1. Sinnovator Knot Sheath Platinum Silicone Penis Extender 9 Inches
    Sinnovator Knot Sheath Platinum Silicone Penis Extender 9 Inches 3 5 5 1
  2. Sinnovator Knot Sheath Platinum Silicone Open Tip Penis Extender
    Sinnovator Knot Sheath Platinum Silicone Open Tip Penis Extender 4 4.8 5 1
  3. Sinnovator Andromeda Sheath Platinum Silicone Penis Extender 9.5 Inches
    Sinnovator Andromeda Sheath Platinum Silicone Penis Extender 9.5 Inches 12 4.6 5 1
  4. Sinnovator Dagon Sheath Platinum Silicone Open Tip Penis Extender
    Sinnovator Dagon Sheath Platinum Silicone Open Tip Penis Extender 2 4 5 1
  1. Uberkinky Smooth Move Waterbased Lubricant 250ml
    Uberkinky Smooth Move Waterbased Lubricant 250ml 14 4.4 5 1
  2. MEO Very Deep Urethral Lubricant 30ml
    MEO Very Deep Urethral Lubricant 30ml 54 4.8 5 1
  3. Uberkinky Cum Together Cum Lubricant 250ml
    Uberkinky Cum Together Cum Lubricant 250ml 20 4.4 5 1
  4. Smooth Move Lubricant 100ml
    Smooth Move Lubricant 100ml 12 4.5 5 1