How to use a suction cup dildo
Dildos are wonderful inventions. And they come in a range of different shapes and sizes. Whichever model you choose, it’ll be your new best friend in the bedroom! Dildos are a great way to enjoy penetration - whether you’re masturbating or it’s part of your couple’s play - but there’s something missing… hands free freedom!
And that, my friends, is where the suction cup dildo comes into play. Let’s dive right in and learn more about this baby and everything you can do with it.
Why do some dildos have suction cups?
The best ideas really are the simplest ones. The basic suction cup can either be attached to your favourite dildo or you can buy one with it already designed as such, and it can help you discover a whole host of new ways to play with yourself.
The suction cup allows you to secure your dildo to a flat surface - we’ll talk more about this later - which can leave your hands free to do other things. I’m just spitballing here but that could be holding a vibrator against your clit, using a male masturbator or simply playing with your nipples. All of a sudden, the world’s your oyster.
Where to attach your suction cup dildo
In short, your new best mate will attach securely to any flat and hard surface. But just in case you’re new, here’s a few ideas to get things started:
The bathroom
Why does sex or wanking become so much hotter when water is involved? Get dirty as you get clean by attaching your suction cup dildo to the wall of your shower or the floor of your bathtub. Hard tiling is a great place to attach - it’s almost guaranteed to not come loose - so ride away. Take a waterproof bullet vibrator with you for extra fun!
Headboard
Take things back to the bedroom in a way you’ve never experienced before. As long as your headboard isn’t made of fabric - i.e. wood - then you’ll be good to go. Using your suction cup dildo in bed means you’ll have the pillows and duvet at your disposal, so you’ll be able to experiment with plenty of new angles and positions.
Mirror
It can be kind of hot to watch yourself masturbate. Get up close and personal in a whole new way by attaching a suction cup dildo to your mirror. Just make sure it’s fixed firmly to the wall before giving this one a go! Masturbating in this way is perfect for exploring your own body and figuring out exactly what you like.
How to use a suction cup dildo
There’s no set way to use your new suction cup dildo. What’s most important is that you let yourself run wild! But here’s a few tips to get you started.
Select your surface
By this I mean pick where you’re going to attach your dildo. Wherever you choose, make sure it’s secure! Nothing says mood killer like a dildo coming loose just as you’re about to reach your climax. Give everything a few tugs before you hop on.
Use plenty of lube
I’m a big fan of using lube for all kinds of sexual encounters, and masturbation is no different. Apply a generous helping of toy-safe lube (water-based lube is best if you’re using silicone toys) and I promise you it will be an absolute game changer. Your ride will be so much smoother and far more pleasurable.
Assume the position
Now, there are a fair few ways you can actually use your dildo. Two firm favourites are squatting and doggy style.
Squatting - either on your knees or feet - is a great choice if you have laid a mirror on the floor, as it allows you to get a bird’s eye view of the action. Doggy style is an incredibly popular one as you can move back and forth, fully in control of the pace, to really enjoy the full length of your dildo.
Act out your fantasies
Many of us fantasise about introducing a third player into our bedroom, but sometimes our partner isn’t comfortable with this, or we like the idea but not the reality. If this sounds familiar, then a suction cup dildo - or a dildo of any kind - could be the perfect way to act out a threesome. You get all of the fun of a third, just without the penis.
