What is fisting?
Before posing for a pounding, let’s delve into what’s meant by the phrase that kinky individuals have come to know and love. Involving either taking a fist of the human variety, or the artificial sort, many find fisting to be a highly pleasurable experience (when done well, and safely, of course).
So, why is it that a good stretching - whether that’s for your vagina or anus - has become so satisfying? Put simply, the extra pressure put on the external tissue sends spine-tingling signals through the nerve endings, making for an earth-shattering orgasm like no other. For those wanting to get hand-sy, the perfect (mess-free) solution is waiting for you in our fisting toy collection. Are you ready for a knockout sexy session?
Is fisting beginner friendly?
For rookies that still want to get racy, don’t be put off by fisting. Even beginners can get on board, but you should definitely prepare yourself before taking the plunge. Although the main aim is always to enjoy yourself, it’s just as vital that the whole process is as safe as possible. Often, some training is needed to get your body used to the stretch - which is easily done through the use of anal beads and butt plugs, or through depth training dildos. If you start off small, you’ll be able to gradually work your way up to the fisters that pack a real punch.
What are the best fisting dildos?
Now that you simply can’t escape the thought of fisting, it’s time to head to the web and choose your new mate for life. Amongst our cum-tastic selection, you’ll find anything from our anal training fisting butt plug that’s ideal for bum-play beginners, to our mighty 12 inch cock-in-hands dildo for a fuller feeling. Or maybe you’d fancy something that’s comparable to a lover’s fist? Take your fantasies to the next level - even when they can’t be there to satisfy you in person - with our ultra-lifelike king size realistic bitch fisting dildo. With a tapered shape for an easy glide in and graduated girth for a super stimulating stretch, don’t you think it’s about time you got your hands on one?
How to use a fist dildo
Alter your set-up
Although you may not think it, your environment is everything when it comes to any kind of sexual play. You’ll need to get both your body and mind into a completely relaxed state to prepare yourself for what’s to come, so fluff up those pillows, get your back supported, and make sure to cover hard surfaces with a snug throw or blanket. By doing this, it’ll be so much easier to get your body into a whole variety of different positions, whether that’s on all fours to take it from behind or upright with an elongated spine and legs spread apart. Just be aware that you may need to switch-up your set-up as you go along to keep yourself comfortable.
Warm up
Before inserting your new fisting toy - whether that’s into your anus or vagina - it’s important to get your body warmed up first. Get your pulse racing by slowly touching yourself with your fingers, or get a willing playmate to give you a helping hand. You may want to bring some other toys into the picture to reach climax, perhaps stimulating your clit with a vibrator, or for the penis-owners who are keen to take part, why not trial out our multi speed vibrating penis head teaser to get you on the edge of your seat?
Take the time to focus on other areas too and heighten the pleasure with nipple clamps or nipple suckers, gradually working your way down your body to reach the target - ever so slowly and teasingly, of course. These are the go-tos for lovers of sadistic power play, and a match made in heaven where a fisting dildo is concerned.
Start off small
Especially when it comes to fisting dildos, practice definitely makes perfect. Beginners should be particularly careful when inserting the dildo, as your body may not be used to taking such a stretch. Start off with something smaller, whether that’s a realistic dildo for a familiar fuck, or slowly insert your fingers inside your hole of choice, gradually increasing the number until you feel comfortable to - gently (at first) - take a fist.
Lube it up!
Any toy, and that includes your fabulous fister, needs a healthy coating of lube before being slowly inserted inside your hole. There are plenty of fisting lubes out there designed to provide a satisfying stretch - lasting throughout the duration of your play session. Just make sure to double check your dildo’s material beforehand, ensuring that it can be safely paired with your lube of choice.
Take it slow
Now that your fisting dildo is lubed up to the max, you can start ever-so-gently inserting it either into your vagina or anus. Give yourself time to get used to varying girths, rather than rushing to shove the whole thing inside you in one swift movement - which is more likely to cause pain rather than pleasure. Once you can feel your body relaxing, you can start to thrust the dildo at a pace that best suits you, ramping the speed up as you get closer to climax.
Removing the fisting dildo
Once you’ve hit climax, it’s time to SLOWLY remove the fisting dildo. Again, do this with caution to give your body the time it needs to adjust. If you do feel any discomfort after your session - which is normal, especially for beginners - make sure to revitalise yourself with plenty of water, and you could even use another healthy squirting of lube to gently massage the area.
After care
Be warned that these areas may feel more sensitive than usual over the next few days, so try to take it easy. Avoid partaking in penetrative or anal sex too to give your body time to recover, especially if the lining of the anus or vagina has been torn during your play. If this is the case, don’t panic if you do see small spots of blood - this shouldn’t take too long to stop. However, in scenarios where the bleeding does continue or get heavier, you should take yourself to a medical professional as soon as possible.
Fisting injuries are rare, as long as you take the time to follow the previous steps and always pay attention to any change in sensation throughout your session. Remember, it may take a few rounds to perfect your technique, but once you’ve found a toy that ticks all of your boxes, you’ll be in for one wild ride.
Need some more fisting advice? Head over to our beginner’s guide to fisting to find out everything you need to know about getting your fill. Or perhaps you’re curious to explore through our range of fisting toys, guaranteed to take you all the way to heaven and back? Meet your match with UberKinky today.
