How to have a blended orgasm

Who doesn’t want multiple orgasms? Stick right here to learn all there is to know and how to master the elusive blended orgasm. Whether you have a dong or deep canal, there’s a way to achieve incredibly intense multiple orgasms… Wet the appetite, have we? Oh, read on for tantalising tricks on how to sound more oohs in the bedroom - or on the floor, sofa, wherever!

Hang on, what is a blended orgasm?

Look up ‘blended orgasm’, and you’ll find many definitions focusing on the simultaneous stimulation and orgasm of the clitoris and vagina. But it’s basically describing multiple orgasms happening at once, that can apply to anyone, regardless of sex! Yes, that’s right, you penis-owners don’t have to suffer from FOMO. The blended orgasm can give a more intense, full-body response; all ears?

What types of orgasms are there?

And now you’re wondering “Well, how many orgasms are there?!”

You’d be surprised…

Sit down, put the kettle on, as you’re about to be blown away; hey, that may even become literal once you’ve finished reading and inspired yourself.

Female orgasms

First, let’s start with those bodies with vaginas. Like we’ve said, when we think of multiple orgasms, many minds go straight to clitoral and vaginal stimulation, not forgetting the G-spot: get the squirting 101! So let’s go through the common female orgasms.

Clitoral

Considering women, on average, fail to reach an orgasm without assistance, i.e. clitoral stimulation, this one is the biggy and the one that’s most likely causing those moans, screams, eughs, ahhs, oohs - whatever comes out!

When not aroused, this little pleasure button (shaped like a pea) is mostly hidden away under a hood, above the vaginal opening, but comes out to play when the blood gets going. And it’s important to know, there isn’t really a one-size-fits-all approach in how to stimulate, with both dildos and hand movements!

Some love a bit of tongue action, others may prefer strokes or a full palm caressing and massaging. Whatever the action, the clitoris is a very sensitive part of the body, full of 8,000 tiny nerve endings - did you know the penis contains approximately 4,000? Touches, flicks, and strokes across the area and surrounding labia get the rush of blood flow going, where the clitoris kind of comes out to play and says “Oh, hello there, you better be going somewhere with this!”

G-spot

Not quite as elusive as it’s often described, the G-spot orgasm is another fun one. Not exactly something you can see but it can certainly be felt, it is located on the front wall of the vagina, roughly about halfway between the vaginal opening and cervix. So how can you stimulate it? Normally, by inserting a finger into the vagina and pressing forward as if you’re making a come-hither motion. There should be a ridged or bumpy area that feels spongy.

By gently pressing this spot and stroking it, you can get ready for an intense orgasm and even some squirting action if you’re patient and lucky. You can use sex toys - vibrators and dildos - fingers, or a partner’s penis to press against it to activate an out-of-this-world climax. Why not theme it up with an alien dildo as you or your partner explore new territory, eh?

Deep vaginal

Whilst lots of women typically don’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, it’s not as rare as you might think - at least it shouldn’t be. Deep inside that canal are some additional erogenous zones (that’s science-speak for moan zones) that, when touched in the right way, can give an instant deep vaginal orgasm.

You have your G-spot, but you’ve also got the A-spot and O-spot. The A-spot is found on the high front (or anterior) wall of the vagina, just under the cervix and the O-spot (O for orgasm, of course) can be found on the back wall of the vagina, almost behind the cervix. Again, these areas are sensitive because of those noise-making nerves. That means if a penis, toy or some fingers fill deep enough, you can cause some climax-contracting orgasms. A perfect opportunity to try a fist dildo to see how really deep one can get.

Anal

Is it time to get behind some anal play? It’s not for everyone, but certainly worth a dabble. With the right anal lube and techniques, you can be in for an orgasmic treat. Yep, that’s right, you can orgasm from anal. To get a bit scientific on you, the anus and vagina are super close, connected by a thin stretch of tissue called the perineum, and so the anus shares a lot of the same nerves and muscles, including the pelvic-floor muscle. This muscle is also really sensitive for so many vagina-owners, so stimulating the area can trigger a vaginal and anal orgasm. Throw a double penetration dildo into the mix, and you’ve got a screaming good time.

Male orgasms

Now onto those bodies with penises. We’re not leaving you out, don’t worry. Think there’s just the ejaculation orgasm? Think again. In fact, an orgasm and an ejaculation are actually two separate acts, as it’s possible to ejaculate without having an orgasm and vice versa. So let’s go through some different types of orgasms for those of you with a penis.

Penile

We’ll get the obvious one out the way. The penile orgasm is commonly known as ejaculation. After rhythmic stimulation of the shaft - oral, vaginal or by hand - the penis likes to squirt out its love juice to let you know how grateful it is. A good thrust or some sensual stroking action can get those sheets sticky.

Multiple penile orgasms

And as we said, because an ejaculation and an orgasm are two different actions, you can actually train yourself to have multiple orgasms. Ejaculation is the biological response that often comes immediately after the orgasm. The orgasm is what is felt in the brain and body from all those tension-releasing chemical and biological reactions going on in that body. The training works by practising to detach the physical act of ejaculation with a more complex action or orgasm, to create multiple orgasms.

Prostate and anal

Prostate orgasm

Ladies, you have the G-spot (well, and the A-, C-, and O-spot!), but penis-owners, you also have a P-spot. P for prostate. That gland that makes up part of the male reproductive system is partial to some play too, you know. Internal or external massaging can stimulate the area to reach, oh yes, an orgasm! Word on the street is that some say it’s even better than the penile orgasm.

Anal orgasm

Different to the prostate orgasm, an anal orgasm can come from a good rimming, or other anal-play methods. By stimulating the rectal canal or anal opening - with another penis, toy, hand, or tongue - those groans will come out as the anal orgasm is achieved. Get those anal sex toys and anal beads out to impress.

 

Testicular Orgasm

If you’ve got the balls, then dare you try the testicular orgasm? Your balls aren’t just a way to experience bad pain, oh no, there’s good pain to be had, too! With pressure, massaging, and controlled-pain techniques, the sensitivity down there can really excite. Cock and ball torture (or ball-busting) involves constrictions to the balls and penis, and you can really get off on it.

Urethral orgasm

With the use of urethral sounds, you can achieve a noisy orgasm here. By inserting special rods into your urethra, you can moan and groan, as you reach an orgasm, that will be music to the ears for your playmate. You can really get some unique sensations here, and if this sounds too tricky, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered with our beginner's guide to urethral sounding.

How to have a male blended orgasm

So with all those different types of male orgasms, how then can you achieve a blended orgasm if you have a penis? It’s all about what holes and body parts you want playing with! And those sex toys are your friends for achieving multiple orgasms. Butt plugs fit snugly in your… you guessed right, butthole, whilst your penis can also be plugged with… yep, perfectly-made penis plugs, for some urethral stimulation. Aim for a prostate or anal orgasm, as you climax with a urethral or penile orgasm; there’s deep satisfaction to be had in all areas!

Your partner can massage and cup those balls whilst stroking and gripping the shaft for another blended orgasm. Or get a tantalising tongue involved, and have another give you a mind-blowing rim job whilst your penis gets some petting. Why not give them some raunchy research this week and have them study our beginner’s guide to rimming.

How to have a blended orgasm for women

Who’s ready for some soak-the-sheets, simultaneous orgasms? We sense those hands go up. Speaking of, you can sense that too by having your partner enter you with some good fisting for some deep vaginal orgasms. Whilst they’re down there, they can lick the clit for an intense session. Or have them thrust inside you with their penis or a strap-on dildo whilst the hand teases the clitoris and labia.

And guess what? You can fill all those holes whilst the clit and labia area gets some rubbing with a double penetration dildo; just read our guide on how to master double penetration to get you set. Don’t forget that G-spot either. Glide in with a dildo or penis to stimulate that throbbing wall whilst using hands for clitoral touching for a breathtaking orgasm. Throw in some nipple-play, and you’ve got a one hell of a blended orgasm.

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