How to use a double-ended dildo
We hope you’re making notes, because the double-dong will be a brilliant addition to your toy box. With twice the head for twice the fun, this artificial playmate may look like something out of a raunchy sci-fi film, but it’s guaranteed to have you seeing stars. There’s plenty to go around too, so whether you choose to share with a partner or you’re looking for something a little (or a lot) extra during solo play, the choice is completely yours.
What is a double-ended dildo?
First things first, what actually is a double-ended dildo? For those that have merely fantasised about this toy but haven’t yet taken the leap of faith, the clue really is in the name with this one. Essentially, it’s one gigantic shaft with two gag-worthy heads at either side, which can either be inserted into the anus or vagina (perhaps both at the same time if you’re really looking for a good filling). The versatility of the double-ended dildo means it can be incorporated both into solo and partner play, and it’s the perfect way to go if you’re looking for a way to spice up your sex life. Ranging in width, length and material, you’ll be able to get into a variety of positions with your dream double-dong in no time.
Choosing your double-ended dildo
There’s a double-ended dildo out there to suit every preference, from fleshy double penetrators complete with realistic veiny textures, to the giganotosaurus of the dildo world, the girthy XXL double dong. Measuring a whopping 14.25 inches, there’ll be more than enough to go around with this bad boy.
If you are choosing to use your double-ended dildo with a partner, communicate with them to discover what gets their heart racing before doing the dirty. Beginners may want to start off with something on the smaller side first - because who says size is all that matters? If your next playtime does awaken the desire for a deeper fill, just remember to use plenty of lube before going bigger. Before taking a trip to pleasure town, check out our guide to dildo sizes to make sure that your next erotic experience is just as safe as it is scream-worthy.
But that’s not all; you can take your pick when it comes to choosing your sex toy’s material, too. Whether you’re a fan of the aesthetically-pleasing glass dildo, or perhaps you’re a lover of smooth silicone dildo, you’ll be certain to discover a toy that ticks all your boxes with a raunchy range to choose from.
Getting into position
So, now that you have a double-ended dildo in hand, what are you supposed to do with it? Regardless of whether you’re playing with a partner or on your own, it’s all about setting the mood. Queue the music. Seriously though, sex is a brilliant way to relieve tension, but if you can’t get comfortable and your head is in another place, save it for another day. Using your dildo to its full potential is so much easier when you’re in the mood for it, and when your mind and muscles are totally relaxed, it’ll make for a smoother insertion. And better pleasure.
Get yourself into position by lying down on your back, with a cushion placed underneath your hips to gently bring your body upwards. Spread your legs apart and either insert the lubed-up double-ended dildo gently yourself, or get a partner to slip it in for you. Start slow and find a pace that you feel happy with, getting faster and deeper until you hit your G-spot.
Going solo with a double-ended dildo
Stimulating your anus and vagina
One of the best features of the double-ended dildo is that it can easily be twisted into shape. If you are going at it alone, bend your toy into a U-shape, rest it against a sturdy surface and slowly lower yourself down to use both ends for both holes - talk about getting your fill. For added stimulation, you may want to use a clit vibrator at the same time for a truly orgasmic experience.
Missionary position
You don’t need to use your double-ended dildo to stimulate both holes at the same time either. Others may prefer to use one end as a handle for extra control to make sure that they’re hitting all the right spots. If this is more your tempo, get into a missionary position with pillows under your hips for comfort, gradually inserting one head and holding the other bent up towards you. With this technique, you’ll be able to get as deep as you please. Before you ride off into the sunset, take a peek at our previous blog on how to ride a dildo to get the most out of your next playtime. We’ll wait.
Using a double-ended dildo with a partner
Fancy pairing up for double the fun? When it comes to the double-ended dildo, you’ll be able to free up your hands to focus on other areas whilst each lucky playmate gets their hole filled.
Doggy style
For the doggy style position, you and your partner will need to get down on all fours and go cheek-to-cheek. Make sure that both ends of the double-ended dildo are coated in lube, slowly hold each end at the entrance of the vagina or anus and push back onto the dildo. Work together to find the best motion and start banging away to your heart’s content.
The recliner
A similar technique can be applied to the recliner sex position, except this time you’ll both need to lie down on your backs. Face one another and get into a sitting position, reclining back as much as you’d like. Wrap your legs around the other’s hips to grip on, place the tip of the head at the desired entrance, and start thrusting together to insert the double-ended dildo. This sex position is a dream if you get off from watching your partner pleasure themselves, and you can get extra toys involved for more of a buzz.
Oral double-ended sex
As we mentioned previously, double-ended dildos are great for gaining more control over your sex toy. Your partner should get comfortable as you work your magic, using one end of the dildo to insert inside them and the other for getting your grip. Experiment with different techniques and see how they react to each, enhancing the pleasure by using your tongue to gently tease other areas.
Strap on double-dildo
Many double-ended dildos are compatible with a harness, so if both you and your playmate are both vulva-owners, you may well have just found your new favourite toy. Strap-ons pack all the punch of a real penis, allowing you to use your hands however you’d like to pleasure your partner. This will be compatible with pretty much any sex position, so once you’ve found your favourite, use the double-ended dildo to stimulate either one hole, or both at the same time. You may want to pull the door shut for this one, because twice the stimulation is certain to produce twice the scream.
Whether you’ve got a taste for the double-ended dildo, or maybe you have another fantasy you’re looking to fulfill, have a chat with us today to discover what we have to offer. We believe that there’s a toy out there to suit every preference, so find your dream artificial playmate with UberKinky today.
