Yes, that’s right: it’s not just about lying on your back in bed for a fumble around for a quick tension-releasing fix. Oh no. When it comes to masturbating, there are indeed many positions out there. You wouldn’t just stick to one position for sex, so why do it for masturbating? We take a look at the best female masturbation positions; so get snug, pick up your favourite sex toy - or let those hands wander - and do your research with us.
Face down with pressure
First off, forget porn with all the legs sprayed with arched backs and moans, only after a few minutes of frantic rubbing. Masturbating is a time for you and only you, no need to perform. Positions are all about getting the best pleasure. Comfort is also key. So, first up, we have the face-down position.
Many women love to pet the cat whilst lying on their front to enhance the pleasure from the pressure and weight on the hands. Using both hands is also a good idea when rubbing one out to add more friction against the clit.
Fumble with furniture
Try out the sofa, the chaise longue, the home office chair or kitchen table. Then grab nearby household items. At the desk? Play around with textures, use a thimble or even desk lamp for some solo playtime. Or grab a hairbrush and get grinding. In the kitchen? Grab the rolling pin and give yourself a treat right on the worktop or table for an exciting and very desperate housewife moment. If your partner is in the house or upstairs, maybe the fun comes from knowing they may walk in on you any minute! Filming is optional. Don’t forget the clean-down after with your sex essentials, especially when you’re in the maid outfit *wink wink*.
Get busy in the bath
Get wet in more ways than one for some steamy hot action that you can get just by yourself, oh yes! Another popular masturbation position is in the bathtub. You can lie down and prop either one or both feet against a wall to get busy and make a real big splash. If you have a detachable shower head, you know what to do. But better still, you can really get into a theme and bring in a tentacle dildo to tickle you down under. Close your eyes and imagine you’re in an alternate universe, having the time of your life with an aquatic adonis hybrid, mmmm - that’s the kind of pleasure and fantasy we can bring.
Deep doggy
Doggy style doesn’t just have to be for two. By getting on all fours for some self-love, you can experiment with this position to enhance the effect it has on your masturbation. Leaning backwards also activates the core and will pull your pelvic area more taught, ultimately making sensations there feel stronger. Use pillows to perch on for extra comfort.
And do you know what also works perfectly for solo doggy style? Butt plugs! Because you don’t have to rely on anyone else inserting, you can simply pop a plug in there and leave it be as you go barking mad with your own growler whilst feeling oh-so sexually satisfied down there.
With caterpillar styles, fists, colours, tails, jewelled, and metal butt plugs, you can always mix it up. Butt, there’s always the dog dildo to get you groaning, this one will make it hard to keep you on a leash - you might not be able to stop!
Lazy Solo Lover
We haven’t forgotten about the G-spot, oh no. This position has you sitting up with your back against a comfy stack of pillows. The closeness to your genitals due to the reclining position makes for great G-spot stimulation as self-penetration is much easier and you can really go for it.
Let’s touch up on the G-spot - the theory and the physical. The elusive G-spot is a sensitive spot of tissue on the belly side of the body, about one-and-a-half to three inches inside the body. This area responds really well to pressure, and intense stroking and vibration. And when you’re turned on, the G-spot is much easier to find as it engorges with blood. Just like foreplay works with other sex acts, it also works wonders for self-love, of course. Explore your erogenous zones, play with your nipples, stroke your sensitive areas, and caress your clit before you head on inside..
Deep Dildo Squat
For those who still want a good filling, then this is the one. This is where the suction cup dildo works wonders. You can attach it to the hard floor, bathtub ledge, chair... Wherever will give you a level of flexibility and match your leg strength.
Using some lube - and when you’re in the mood for some deep penetration - lower yourself onto the play stick. People love to do this position as it opens up the vaginal canal like no other position (like lying down on your back), and this allows you to sensually stimulate the anterior fornix erogenous zone - the A-spot, or your C-spot (cervix).
The Flick and Fly
Into yoga? Then this one will be quite familiar. It’s time to sexify the Lotus position. In a seated position, you press the pads of your feet together so that knees are spread in a butterfly style. This can make the orgasm stronger because you’re able to clench down as you come. There’s also tension being created in the pelvic floor muscles. You’re also able to reach the clit easily, and this is another good position for the G-spot! Your sex toys along with sex lubes can slide in to stimulate you senseless. As you edge to your climax, the powerful sensation will wash over you, so you can get high off some self-care. Ahhh.
The Basic Back
And finally, the standard on-your-back position makes the list. How could it not? But we thought we’d get so many different ones in there before we got to the obvious one to show you just what you can do when feeling horny! What’s good about this one? It’s such a comfortable position that you can do almost anywhere, on the bed, in the bath, on the floor, on the sofa - wherever. You open those legs wide, and do your petting. It’s also a great one for using dildos. The ease of access and view you get when thrusting yourself with a delish dick imitator is such a turn-on. And with so many different dildo designs, you can tap into your deepest fantasies for better orgasms and solo fun. We’re talking alien, unicorn, snakey, dragon, animal or just realistic dildos, whatever your kink.
Experiment with touch: Ways to masturbate
Wherever you’re trying your masterful masturbation, don’t forget to experiment with touch. We can get used to the same technique, but our hands, fingers, toys and our motions all come into play to send us into the land of euphoria. It also depends on the time you have, of course. If you’re limited on time, then ok, there may be more of a frantic fumble. But if you have the whole night to yourself, well then, you can slow things down.
Why not try tapping motions, tickling and (gentle) flicking. Go SUPER slooooooow to begin with by stroking and caressing the labia. Try using the hand, play with different tempos and pressures. You can cup the whole area and use the whole palm to massage and press down. Use fingers to flick, stroke and circulate. As it’s just you, you know exactly what to do. Whatever you find works even better, share it with your partner or next encounter. Enjoy!
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