Beginner's Guide to Medical Play

Crazy about role play, but sick of the same old scene?  Breathe new life into your BDSM play by injecting a little medical madness into it!  It’s guaranteed to make it better.  Not sure where to start?  Fear not; this comprehensive Beginner’s Guide to Medical Play will ensure you’re fully prepped for your obscene operation…

So, if you have a sub that examines your every move, give them a taste of their own medicine by incorporating some malicious medical play into your out of hours’ activities!  Medical play encompasses a variety of sexual fetishes that centre around objects, practices, environments and situations of a medical or clinical nature.  This could be anything from catheterisation to cauterisation and from examinations to enemas.  This gratifying guide covers all the warped ways in which you can play, plus essential information to keep you safe. 

Reasons You Should Try Medical Play

Medical play is a thrilling addition to BDSM that invites participants to explore control, trust, and role-play in unique ways. Here are four reasons why it might be just what the doctor ordered:

Exciting Role-Playing
Medical play opens the door to imaginative scenarios, allowing you to step into roles like "doctor" or "nurse" and enact fantasy-laden procedures in a safe, consensual environment. This type of role-playing brings new energy to intimate dynamics, with the added excitement of assuming authority or submitting to examination.

 

Sensory Immersion
Through smells, sounds, and tactile sensations reminiscent of a medical setting, medical play taps into all five senses, heightening arousal and anticipation. Whether it’s the cool feel of steel instruments or the faint scent of antiseptic, these sensory cues bring your scene to life, adding depth to the experience.

 

Exploring Trust and Control
With its inherently invasive and controlled procedures, medical play allows both tops and bottoms to explore boundaries, vulnerability, and mutual trust. It’s an excellent way to deepen your bond with your partner as you navigate consent, safety, and comfort zones.

 

Psychological Thrills
Medical play is uniquely suited for those who find pleasure in the mental aspect of BDSM. The power exchange involved, coupled with the clinical detachment of medical scenarios, creates a tantalising psychological experience, blurring lines between care and control.

 

Safety First!

When it comes to safety, you’re in the right place!  And no, we’re not talking about your doctor’s dungeon, we are, of course, talking about UberKinky.  We are committed to helping you maintain a clean bill of health and, as such, it’s vital that you pay attention to this safety section.  As medical play encompasses such a vast array of activities, it is difficult to cover every single safety aspect.  However, there are a number of broad points to consider when it comes to using your power for medicinal purposes.  Follow the steadfast rules of BDSM, namely agreeing upon a safe word beforehand and taking things slowly.  Always monitor your patient’s reactions and watch out for signs including loss of sensation, swelling, colour change or blood spots beneath the skin.  Stop immediately if you think circulation has been compromised or you notice anything unusual. 

If you’re engaging in any kind activity that is likely to draw blood, be sure to take the necessary precautions.  That includes washing the hands with antibacterial soap, wearing surgical gloves and having alcohol swabs to hand.  Make sure all instruments have been thoroughly sterilised before use and sanitise all sides and surfaces where you may store your tools.  In addition, only share equipment between multiple partners if it is non-porous and completely sterile. 

Equipment specifically designed for vaginal use should not be used anally unless expressly advised possible.  Use lube to facilitate easy insertion of internal tools and take extra care with items that restrict breathing ability.

Now, follow these simple dos and don’ts and you’ll soon see why this type of play is the best medicine!

Do

• Discuss boundaries & agree on a safe word/action beforehand
• Monitor patient’s reactions & circulation
• Stop immediately if bottoms experience any pain, numbness, discolouration or swelling
• Wash hands with antibacterial soap before getting started
• Wear surgical gloves or latex disposable gloves
• Have alcohol swabs to hand
• Take extra precautions for blood play
• Sterilise any surfaces/trays on which instruments will be placed

Don’t

• Practice medicine whilst under the influence of alcohol or drugs (it numbs sensations & could result in serious injury)
• Use tools that are specifically designed for vaginal play anally
• Share equipment that is porous or hasn’t been properly sterilised
• Attempt needle play or edge play until you are a little more experienced
• Force in internal instruments without using a medical lubricant, such as KY Jelly

Setting the Scene

Creating an authentic medical environment can greatly enhance the experience, helping both participants immerse in their roles. Start by using white sheets to cover surfaces or section off the area to evoke a clinical vibe. Place a tray nearby with medical essentials—cotton balls, alcohol swabs, gloves, and perhaps a stethoscope. If you’re on a budget, a folding massage table makes an excellent examination bench.

A medical gown for your “patient” and a lab coat or smock for the “doctor” can add another level of realism. Scents are important too, as they trigger memory and emotion. Passing an alcohol wipe under your partner’s nose or using iodine can instantly set the tone, evoking a hospital atmosphere. Even if you don’t plan on using needles or certain tools, laying them out on a tray can add to the tension and anticipation.

Types of Medical Play Tools

Medical play offers a variety of instruments to create an authentic scene. Here are a few essential items:

Stethoscope: Perfect for checking your “patient’s” heartbeat. Alternatively, place the earpieces in your partner’s ears to amplify their own heartbeat as the scene intensifies.

Thermometer: Start in the mouth, then move to underarms, and finish with a rectal temperature check for added intimacy.

Speculum: Available for both anal and vaginal use, speculums are perfect for examinations. Use with care and follow up with a playful diagnosis!

Pinwheel: Known as a Wartenberg wheel, this spiked roller is used for testing nerve sensitivity on various parts of the body and can heighten sensitivity with light or firm pressure.

Tongue Depressors/Mouth Gag: These will restrict speech and create a sense of helplessness and submissiveness.

These items allow you to simulate real procedures safely and with purpose, adding depth to your scene.

Types of Procedures

Medical play spans a wide range of procedures, from gentle to more intrusive. Here’s a breakdown:

Gentle Procedures: Include heart rate monitoring, blood pressure checks, dental exams, and shaving. These non-invasive acts ease both partners into the medical play mindset.

Intrusive Procedures: For the more adventurous, enemas, douching, and prostate exams offer a higher level of vulnerability and trust. Our guide on enemas and douches covers these procedures for those new to them.

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture): Incorporating CBT in a medical scene might involve a variety of tools and techniques aimed at intense sensation play.

Whether you’re exploring basic checks or more advanced play, remember to prioritise your partner’s comfort and consent at every stage.

Nipple Play and Suction Devices

For beginners, nipple clamps, suction cups, or weights can add a stimulating twist. The light pressure can heighten sensitivity, making the nipples a focal point of pleasure or pain. Vacuum pumps also make a great addition, offering a “pumped-up” effect that’s both visually stimulating and arousing for participants.

Advanced Procedures: Needle Play, Catheters, and More

Needle Play: Needle play should only be attempted by those with experience and training. This edge play involves piercing the skin with sterile, hypodermic needles for a psychological and physical rush.

Catheters: Used in cases where movement is restricted, catheters can intensify the helplessness of the patient role. Available as both internal and external devices, catheter play taps into elements of control and care.

For any blood-related activities, ensure all surfaces, hands, and equipment are thoroughly sanitised. Adhere to blood play safety guidelines, such as wearing gloves, using sterile needles, and disposing of materials in a biohazard container.

Electrosex and Sensation Play

For those looking to push the envelope, electrosex devices are an ideal choice. These create stimulating electric pulses on the skin, bringing extra tingle to your play. Always read the manufacturer’s instructions before use and avoid the heart area. Oxygen masks, cupping, and acupuncture kits are other items that can bring a unique twist to the scene, adding elements of controlled breathing, therapeutic pressure and sensation play.

Step By Step Guide for Newbies:

1. Discuss Boundaries & Consent
   Start with an open conversation to set boundaries, discuss interests, and agree on a safe word or signal.
2. Choose a Theme & Setting
   Decide on roles (doctor, nurse, patient) and set up a simple “clinic” space. A table with white sheets and basic tools will do.
3. Gather Equipment
   Begin with basic items like gloves, a stethoscope, and a Wartenberg pinwheel. Sterilise anything that touches the skin, and keep alcohol swabs handy.
4. Set the Scene
   Add sensory touches—an antiseptic smell or a white coat and stethoscope. Arrange tools on a tray to enhance the medical vibe.
5. Start with Light Sensory Play
   Begin with gentle activities like checking pulse or using the stethoscope. Build anticipation and go slowly.
6. Move to Basic Examinations
   Explore simple “check-ups,” like using a tongue depressor or “diagnosing” your partner’s reactions.
7. Add Light Intrusive Procedures (Optional)
   If comfortable, consider adding gentle cupping or simple internal exams with proper lubrication and sterilised equipment.
8. Debrief & Aftercare
   Check in with your partner afterward, provide reassurance, and offer aftercare like cuddling and water.

This approach keeps things safe, consensual, and allows you to explore medical play one step at a time.

Cleaning and Sterilisation

To ensure that your tools remain sterile, follow these cleaning steps:

1. Wash all tools in hot soapy water, scrubbing away debris.
2. Rinse in cold water to remove soap residue.
3. Sanitise by soaking in a diluted bleach solution for five minutes.
4. Dry and Inspect: Check for cracks or damage and discard any compromised items.
5. Store in a clean, designated area.

Alternatively, use the specially formulated Sinnovator Clean as a Whistle Antibacterial Toy Cleaner. Simply spray and leave to air dry.

For stainless steel, be cautious with bleach, as it can cause corrosion. Regular maintenance and proper storage keep your equipment safe and ready for use.

Bestselling Tools

Wartenberg Wheel

If you’re craving a tool that’ll send shivers down the spine, the Wartenberg Wheel is the answer. This sleek, spiked pinwheel glides over the skin with just enough bite to keep your partner deliciously on edge. Perfect for sensitive spots like nipples or thighs, its gentle pricks trigger a thrill response that’s both teasing and titillating. With every little roll, the wheel raises anticipation and heightens sensation, making it a fantastic choice for beginners and experienced kinksters alike. This is one tool that promises a whirlwind of pleasure with every twist!

 

Collins Speculum

Sturdy and adjustable, the Collins Speculum opens up new horizons in your medical play adventures! With its smooth stainless steel construction, this speculum is designed to give an unobstructed view of everything—perfect for lovers of inspection, exploration, and a little vulnerability. Whether you're doing a “routine check-up” or aiming for a deeper, more intimate exploration, the Collins Speculum is an essential tool for anyone venturing into the world of medical play. It’s a versatile device that promises both control and intimacy in every session.

 

Intro to Sounding Rosebud Sounds Kit

For a unique combination of gentle pressure, intimacy, and daring, the Intro to Sounding Rosebud Sounds Kit is the ideal starter kit for urethral explorers. The slim, smooth sounds are perfect for beginners, delivering a pleasing blend of stretching and sensitivity that’s hard to match. Shaped with a subtle bulb at the tip, these rosebud sounds provide just the right amount of sensation without being too intense. Whether you're new to sounding or exploring something fresh, this kit is a reliable choice for those eager to add a twist to their play.

 

MEO Silicone Catheter

For a softer approach to urethral play, the MEO Silicone Catheter offers pliable, medical-grade comfort with an erotic edge. Designed for ease of insertion and flexibility, this silicone catheter allows for exploration without the rigid structure of stainless steel sounds. It’s great for extending bladder control fantasies or simply experiencing the unique sensations of catheter play. Soft and smooth, this catheter creates an undeniably close connection between partners, blending submission and care in a way that’s as intimate as it is enticing.

 

Uberkinky Anal Rosebud Pump

For those who love a little stretch with their play, the Uberkinky Anal Rosebud Pump is an exhilarating tool for anal expansion. Its inflatable design allows you to gradually increase the fullness sensation with each pump, creating a satisfying feeling of fullness and pressure. Whether you’re indulging in some solo exploration or adding a twist to partner play, this rosebud pump gives you control over every tantalising step. Comfortable and effective, it’s a surefire way to make your medical scene bloom in all the right places.

 

Uberkinky Deluxe Douche

Nothing says “clean slate” quite like the Uberkinky Deluxe Douche. This high-quality douche kit is perfect for those who like to keep things fresh and prepared for all kinds of play. Easy to use and comfortable, it ensures a thorough clean that helps you feel confident and ready for any adventure. With a sleek, ergonomic design, it’s ideal for those who want to incorporate a bit of clinical prep into their scene or just enjoy the sensations of cleansing.

 

Whether you're dipping a toe into medical play or looking to refine your skills, these tools can add new dimensions to your scenes and keep them safe and satisfying.