How to find your own G-spot
Although everyone’s heard of it, why can’t everyone find it?
Newsflash: rubbing a vagina flap continuously isn’t sexy, and that definitely isn’t where the G-spot is. Whether you want to add more ‘oooooh’ to your personal exploration sessions, or perhaps you need to find a polite way to tell your sexual partner that they haven’t yet located the hidden treasure, feel free to refer back to this guide and do with it what you wish. But, if you do decide to take our advice, be prepared for some other-worldly orgasms.
What is the G-spot?
Hold your horses, you horny so-and-so. Before you start searching for that pot of pleasure, familiarise yourself with what the G-spot is, discovering why - when stimulated properly - it has the ability to transport the orgasmer to another universe. Being part of the clitoral network, this sensitive erogenous zone can make orgasms much more intense. Although it may take some practice to find, one thing’s for sure, you’ll certainly know about it when you do.
Where is the G-spot?
Now onto the question that’s on everyone’s lips, where is the G-spot? Don’t expect a straightforward answer to this question, as every body is different. Ultimately, the best way to discover where yours is will be through trial and error - practice makes perfect, after all. Roughly located two inches inside the vagina, situated along its upper wall, there is hope for those who are struggling to locate it. The skin of the G-spot has a slightly different texture to the rest of the vagina, feeling a little more rough in comparison, and some women even compare the consistency to that of the tip of their nose, or a bumpy walnut.
How to find your G-spot
Lubricate
Whether you’re diving in with fingers, or relying on the help of a trusty sex toy, make sure to coat your stimulator of choice in plenty of lube. This will enable an easy glide in as you work your way slowly and gently to your G-spot. Of course, remember to make sure that your toy - if you’ve decided to use one - is compatible with your chosen lubricant.
Insertion
Once fully coated and ready to go, slowly insert either one or two fingers, or your sex toy, inside your vagina. For those using the latter, use your toy to rub up against your G-spot. You can do this through a variety of different angles and speeds, twisting and turning your dildo ever so gently until you finally reach the spot. Everyone has a stimulative preference, so find out what works best for you and your body. If you’re heading in with your fingers, mimic a “come hither” motion with your fingertips, or tap rhythmically against your G-spot, rather than going back and forth, or side-to-side. Experiment with speeds to discover your preference.
Take your time
Why rush your way to climax? Embrace the feeling, and take this explorative time to really connect with yourself. Most importantly, never expect to find your G-spot on the first go. These things take time, and you will start to learn which techniques get your rocks off. Once you’re aware of your personal preferences, you can then communicate your findings to your sexual partner - which will make for a truly brilliant bang, trust us. Remember that, unless they’re already the master of moan, it may also take them some time to find your G-spot. Be patient with them, and make sure to speak up if anything feels uncomfortable, guiding them if needed.
How to stimulate your G-spot
Sex toys
For those who want to experiment beyond their fingers, getting your mitts on a sex toy is definitely the way to go. With an ever expanding market to spend hours browsing through, it's never been easier to meet your match.
G-spot dildos
From dildos designed to hit those hidden spots, to vibrating G-spot wand attachments that you can use to sex up your favourite toy, you definitely won’t be short of orgasmic options. With curved shafts and bulbous heads, and a whole range of sizes and girths to consider - from our cumfortable realistic dildos, right up to our gag-worthy collection of huge dildos - stimulating your G-spot will require minimal effort.
Looking for some added sensation? Why not use your new artificial lover to experiment with temperature play? When left in the fridge for some ice cool fun, or gently submerged in warm water to turn up the heat, you can use your glass dildo or metal dildo to trial something new, all whilst giving your G-spot the attention it deserves.
Or, if you’re in search of something with a little more flexibility, look no further than our collection of delicious silicone dildos. Soft to the touch and guaranteed to leave you gagging for more, you can bend these delightful toys into the desired shape - perfect for hitting those hard-to-reach spots.
Sex positions
Experimenting with a range of sex positions is another way to hit your G-spot, but there are a collection of certain techniques that work particularly well…
The soft serve
Want to keep things soft and sensual, rather than rough and ready? Look no further than the soft serve sex position, which provides the ideal angle for penis or strap-on insertion. Get ready to get up close and personal with your partner, pulling them in close as you spoon the receiver. The little spoon should bring their knees up slightly to allow for a smooth glide in, and this also provides easy clit access. Looking to take things up a notch? Your partner will be buzzing (literally) if you also decide to get a vibrator involved; stimulate their clit whilst holding your penis or strap-on deep inside the receiver, switching up the settings to really tease your playmate.
Cowboy
Take a trip to the wild, wild west, as you subject your playmate to some rootin’ tootin’ bareback banging. The lucky receiver will need to lie down on their back as the giver hops on top and straddles their partner. This position will allow the vagina-owner of the pair to grid their clit against their partner’s lower shaft or pelvic bone, and if you really want to ensure that your G-spot is hit, ask the giver to make short, shallow thrusts for double the stimulation.
The tail-wagger
Think doggy-style, with twice the bark: that’s how good you’ll be feeling after experimenting with the tail-wagger. For this pawfect position, the receiver will need to lie down on their stomach, arching their back, with the giver lying down on top to slide in from the behind. This creates a much better angle for hitting the G-spot; simply raise those hips higher for deeper penetration, or place a pillow underneath the hips for extra comfort. Fancy a proper filling? Complete this sex position with a butt plug to make sure all areas are covered. Woof woof.
Now that you know exactly how to find your own G-spot, what are you waiting for? Stock up on some gag-worthy goodies and explore our range of sex toys, guaranteed to hit the spot every single time.
